Sometimes, it shocks me how some parents or parents-to-be can be so anal about pregnancy..

Like a fellow forumer mentioned that during her ET, a young woman was beside her separated by a curtain at recovery and she was chatting excitedly with her girlfriends.. She thought she was going to deliver and was in good spirits until one of her girlfriends said "你打掉了、我们就去 shopping" (lets go shopping after u r done with ur abortion).. =.="

For many couples who have no issues with having a baby probably might not know how many million miracle steps is required before they get to hold their baby in their arms.. There is the window of opportunity (ovulation), fertilization must take place, the embryo must grow, it must implant, and continue to grow, it needs to be genetically healthy and then continue to grow in the next 9 months.. In between are so many factors that can cause it to fail..

It's really ironic how some who don't want kids or have so many complains have kids so easily.. And so many of us whom are so ready and wan a kid of our own are facing so many obstacles.. When hope and love sticks, they are going to be the most important people in my life (sorry L, u are going to be in the same grade as them, no higher)..

Anyways, enough of being so emo.. Haha.. I wanted to share this story I read in a forum..

Moral of the story for 2ww-ers is that embie grading is just a number or alphabet, the most important is having confidence in ur babies and keep positive!

http://www.fertilityzone.co.uk/index.php?page=Thread&postID=804473&highlight=not+suitable+for+transfer#post804473

Love and Hope, I know you guys are working real hard! Please continue to work hard OK? I promise it'll be all worth it cos you babies will be so loved and we're gonna give u everything we can.. U can climb all over daddy's head if you want too! Haha...